Cinco de Mayo with a Healthy Twist!

turkey fajitas

Last week, I got an email from the delightful ladies at BritMums, who had partnered up with Discovery Foods to celebrate Cinco de Mayo, asking if we’d like to try some of their range. For those who aren’t familiar, Cinco de Mayo literally means ’5th of May’ and is, according to Wikipedia (oh, font of all knowledge…) “ a way to commemorate the cause of freedom and democracy during the first years of the American Civil War, and today the date is observed in the United States as a celebration of Mexican heritage and pride”

We’re huge fans of Mexican food in the Mum’s the Word household and we make fajitas quite regularly, but we’re on a health kick lately so I thought we’d try them with turkey. Lean turkey can contain less than 3% fat, which makes it healthier than chicken. We also added a couple of handfuls of chopped mushrooms which gives extra nutrition and bulks the mixture out, which means you effectively need less meat. We used a yellow and an orange pepper as they’re our favorites and they add an element of sweetness to the flavour combination.

Accompanying our fajitas was Discovery’s Soured Cream topping which really helped to cool things down for Sausage, who’s pretty good but not able to take a whole lotta heat, and some shredded lettuce. The perfect fajita!

The Discovery Fajita seasoning gave a lovely smokey flavour with a hint of heat and actually worked really well with turkey. We’re thrilled with the result of our experiment and happy to know that we can continue to enjoy a favourite meal but with a healthy twist. We’ve also been sent the Cajun Season and Sauce to try and I’m really looking forward to giving this a go. We may even use turkey again, so that we can enjoy it without diet guilt!

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Hotter Shoes – Review and Giveaway

Hi. My name is Jayne. I’m a woman and I like shoes. I’m sorry if that statement upsets you or if this admission takes the sheen off of my feminist-lefty-pro choice exterior, but I can’t help that. I do have a few disclaimers to add though:

1. I like my shoes to look nice

2. Above all, they MUST be comfortable

Gone are the days that I teeter around all day long in 5-inch heels, my ankles just cannot take the pressure anymore and I’m not as…lithe as I was in my early 20′s. The problem I have it that most of the shoes that I find aesthetically pleasing are actually ankle-murdering, toe-binding, blister-forming nightmares and I have an awful habit of buying shoes (hello, 4-inch leopard print pumps bought for 25th birthday evening…) and wearing them only once or twice before vowing to never torture my feet in them ever again.

So, when I was offered a pair of Hotter shoes to try, having heard their reputation of style and comfort, I tried to remain open minded. These are the ones I chose:

Hotter Shoes

The heel on the shoes is enough to elongate the leg and make me feel taller without being a such an oblique angle that all of the pressure is on the balls of my feet, which is a real bonus. I’m a big fan of wearing slightly muted clothes with a statement shoe and these really fit the bill and I have several outfits that I could wear them with too, so they get another 10 points for versatility. The shoes are of a really good quality too, which makes me sound a bit like my Nan, but the older I get the more stock I place on quality rather than ‘BUY ALL THE THINGS’ and have them fall apart in minutes.

BUY ALL THE THINGS!

The wedges have a cushioned sole, which added to the comfort factor and they’re slightly wider than your average fashion heel too, so there’s room for ALL of your toes, not just 60% of them whilst the others are squished to oblivion. All in all, these shoes are EPIC.

Now, here’s the fun part – You can win your very own pair of Hotter shoes too! Hotter have given Mum’s the Word readers a chance to win any pair of shoes from their current collection. Just fill in the Rafflecopter form below to be in with a chance of winning:

a Rafflecopter giveaway

ANNNND, as if that wasn’t good enough, Hotter have been kind enough to give Mum’s the Word readers their own discount code, giving new customers 10% off of any full priced pair of shoes from the current range and free P&P on your order!

Just use the code PHAMTW at the checkout.

Good luck!

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My Ideal Holiday

I’m not even kidding when I say this; I have been to paradise. Not only have I been there but I was lucky enough to get married there. When it came to a toss-up between the concrete-tastic registry office in our town or swanning off to warmer climes and doing it elsewhere, there was no competition. Husband (then Fiance) and I, spent a while researching our options and eventually decided on here:

vakarufalhi-top

That is the very island on which we said our nuptials and it was one of the most incredible experiences of my life. I’d love to go back there one day, but now that I’m a parent my idea of the perfect holiday has changed somewhat. As much as Vakarufalhi Island in the Maldives is my dream destination, it was a very adult-oriented holiday and I think Sausage would have got bored after a while!

Something that we have considered is a family camping holiday. When I was a kid, we took regular camping holidays, sometimes in Devon or Cornwall, but sometimes a lot closer to home, in places like Dymchurch or Walton on the Naze and I have really fond memories of our trips. When I was 14, my friends family took me to France and we did what I suppose was an early form of glamping – sure, our walls were made of canvas, but we had beds, a fridge, electric lights and rooms in our tent! I recently discovered Thompson Al Fresco, a company that offers European camping holidays for families which work out really reasonable on price.

The parks all look packed with entertainment options for kids and adults alike and there’s a variety of accommodation to choose from, which means that whether you’re a small family or a large one, there’s something to suit your needs. You can also secure your booking for as low as £100, which is great if you want to pay for the holiday over time.

Take a look at the Thompson Al Fresco site for details of all of their destinations and accommodations on offer – I quite fancy Lake Garda. It’s somewhere that I’ve wanted to visit for a long time but I always thought it would be prohibitively expensive or not very child-friendly, so it just shows how wrong I was!

What would your ideal destination be?

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Mum’s the Word Loves Scrappy Owls

My friend Becky is a very talented lady, she’s a real whizz with a sewing machine and I’m often admiring the clothes she makes for her daughter, who’s in Sausage’s class at school. Just recently, she’s started putting her talents to other use and has set up her own shop selling some of the gorgeous things she makes. I’m a huge fan of small businesses and cottage industry as I think it’s brilliant when people are able to use their ingenuity to allow them to do something positive for themselves, so I wanted to show you some of her wares:

Dribble Bibs

I love these dribble bibs, they almost make me wish I had my own small, dribbly person to wear one!

boys dribble bibs

girls dribble bibs

Owl Bags

These owl bags are so adorable and very fashionable right now, I’m thinking about commissioning a matching mama and baby owl pair for me and Sausage!

owl bag

Scooter Bags

I think these scooter bags are just so clever, they look seriously cute on the front of a micro scooter and are very practical for carrying sunglasses, sweets and all the other little treasures that our younglings like to stow away.

Scooter Bags

Scrappy Owls

My absolute favourite thing that Becky makes are these Scrappy Owls, which is good as they’re her signature item! I love the bright colours, the design, even the expression on the owls’ faces! So kitsch and cool.

Scrappy Owls

Head over to the Scrappy Owls Facebook page to see all of Becky’s wonderful creations and place an order for yourself!

Disclosure – No payment or payment in kind has been received in exchange for this post, this is not a paid advert and all opinions are my own. 
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Lifestyle Change

balance boardI’ve resisted writing about this for a while, for two reasons. Firstly, I tend to have better success with weight loss and lifestyle change when I don’t make a big thing of it. Like, sneak up on myself with the healthiness. Secondly, I know hearing someone rambling on and on and on about their body issues can be a bit, um, dull, so I’m trying to hold back a bit. Having said that, there are a few little changes that I’ve made lately which have been fairly small but are making a big impact on not just me but the whole family.

Last week, we invested in Wii Fit and a balance board. It was a great buy actually, we went to a local shop looking for a new one and picked up a reconditioned unit for £15! We definitely need to invest in some rechargeable batteries as we’re using it every day, as a family, once Sausage gets home from school. It’s become a bit of a routine, I collect Sausage and then we spend an hour or two having a family session of yoga or competing against one another in golf, running, hula hooping, archery and loads else besides. It may not be intense cardio but it’s getting us all moving, instead of being sedentary, which is a great start.

Another thing that I’ve been doing is eating a lot less meat. I was very resistant to the idea of going entirely veggie as I worry that I’d get really bored of meals without meat but last week I went five days without eating any meat at all and I didn’t even realise! I’m finding that I can still enjoy meals I like, for instance, I had sausages, mash and peas but subbed out fatty pork for Quorn sausages, which reduced the caloric and fat content of the meal by LOADS.

My car has been spending a lot more time on the driveway this week. Because I’m not working now, I rarely need to go anywhere straight after dropping Sausage off at school, so we’ve been walking instead of driving. Actually, I’ve been walking, Sausage has been scooting, which is brilliant exercise for her and is doing wonders for her balance!

Last Thursday, I went swimming for the first time in about 20 years! Don’t get me wrong, I’ve taken Sausage swimming lots of times, but I mean proper swimming where I get in and swim lengths, not just splashing about in the kids pool. I managed 6 lengths of a 50m pool, which may not seem like a lot but it’s a huge achievement for me. The great thing about swimming is that it’s fantastic as a full-body workout but it’s very low impact, so I didn’t end up with painful joints afterwards, which is something that has stalled my interest in exercise in the past.

So, I’m taking it steady and making progress at my own pace and I’m really confident that I’m making changes for the better and changes that I can actually stick to. Wish me luck!

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Is She REALLY a Domestic Goddess?!

Domestic GoddessEveryone has at least one friend or relative who makes them feel like utter rubbish when it comes to matters of the home. You know the type, they usually have a gaggle of children all of whom are studious AND sporty, perfectly coiffured hair, a Cath Kidston tablecloth on her scrubbed wooden table, which sits in the ‘heart of the home’ kitchen with the Aga and Le Creuset casserole dishes. She has a job but also manages to volunteer in a charity shop and chair the PTA at her kids’ school. She’s provides her family with gourmet, highly nutritious meals every night of the week and still manages to keep her home looking like it’s straight out of the pages of Country Living. Oh, and I bet the bitch makes all of her own dresses too. And she’s amazing in bed.

Well, I’ve got 5 surefire tests which will help you discover if this paragon of domestic virtue is really all she seems. The Domestic Goddess test, if you will.

1. Check her Plugs

Does she have those automatic plugs in any of her sinks, the ones where you pull a lever or twist a dial to get them to pop up and down? She does? Right…pull it all the way out. There’s a plastic cage around the bottom to stop large items from going down the sink. If this woman is a Housework Charlatan, her plug cages will be clogged with hair and soap. They may have even gone brown or black with the soap residue.

2. Open the Washing Machine Drawer

Pull her washing machine drawer open. Just like the plug cages, washing machine drawers can go reallllly black and gunky if you don’t rinse out the washing powder and fabric softener residue. Any self-respecting Domestic Goddess will know this, so if your mate has gunky drawers *ahem*, you know it’s all a front.

3. The Dust Test

Okay, so even a homemaking halfwit knows that dust is a dead giveaway when it comes to giving an impression of cleanliness. Most people, however, if they are a total bodger, will only bother with eye-level. You want to get up HIGH, do they have an 8-foot bookcase? Get your hand up there and run it along. I bet it’s dustier than a bricklayers back pocket.

4. Lift The Couch Cushions

Let’s face it, this woman probably has antique Chesterfields or something, but if she has a sofa with detachable cushions, lift up the seat pads and take a peek underneath. There could be a multitude of sins hiding under there and only a real domestic goddess would have remembered to vacuum in the nooks and crannies.

5. Turn on the Shower

Limescale. It’s a son of a bitch. We’ve all seen the Barry Scott magic where you spray Cilit Bang on your showerhead and the jets start miraculously coming our straight again, but have you ever actually bothered to do it? Maybe your pal hasn’t either. Turn on her shower. If it sprays you in the face at a 90° angle, she’s limescaled up the wazoo and probably a pretender to the Queen of Clean throne.

So, there you have it. Five surefire ways to make you feel better and to effectively derelict the reputation of your “Wishes She was Nigella/Kim/Aggie rolled into one” pal.

**Disclaimer: There’s a very good chance that if you go around someone else’s home turning their shower on, lifting the couch cushions or scaling their bookcase, you may not remain friends with the for very long. And if you do need to go to these lengths to make yourself feel better, maybe a good look inwards is what you need.

You’re a dirty bitch. Deal with it.

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Warm My Cockles

sunshineThe other day, I was talking to one of my Mother in Laws; she’s from Arkansas, where by next Monday they’ll be enjoying highs of 29°c, and has only lived in the UK for a couple of years. Our weather doesn’t sit hugely well with her, understandably, and she said that our winter has been so long and so wet that she feels like the damp has soaked into her bones. I TOTALLY understand that feeling, this winter has been far too long and it really doesn’t seem to be getting much better.

Last weekend, we had a day of nice-ish weather and because we live by the sea (or an estuary, if you want to be picky) we took Sausage to the seafront for an afternoon of arcades and doughnuts. When we got there we realised that not only had the majority of our town and the surrounding areas descended upon the prominade, but that most of them were very scantily dressed! It may have been sunny, but there was still a nip in the air, and I was shocked that everyone was so under-dressed. However, it got me to thinking; if people are thinking that this is all the summer we’re going to get, maybe they should be taking this opportunity to soak up some vitamins from the sun!

What we really need is a holiday, go somewhere where the sun is warm, the food is good and the sea is blue. Somewhere where we think more about suncream than raincoats, eat outdoors without worrying about getting soggy sandwiches and visit the beach in beachwear, not thick coats and hiking boots! It’s not all that easy for us to get away because we have Chuck to think about, but if we were to go aomewhere I’d be doing some serious discount hunting on the internet! I don’t know if it’s because I was born in the summer, but I’m definitely more of a fan of the warmer weather. My underactive thyroid means I’m cold most of the time but as soon as it gets to the end of March, I start to wonder when I can get my Birkenstocksand Havaianas out of the wardrobe and onto my feet.

Anyone got any good tips on how I can warm my cockles without spending a fortune or needing a dog-sitter?! Answers on a postcard, please…

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More! Magazine – The End of an Era

More! magazineThis afternoon, I heard the news that More! magazine is ceasing publication after reader numbers have dwindled to an all-time low, and I have to say, I was a little bit saddened. As a teen, More! was about as edgy as it got when it came to reading material and my friends and I spent many a bus journey giggling at ‘Position of the Fortnight’ or reading in horror about peoples embarrassing experiences, usually involving a boy they fancied.

My Mum hated me reading More!, she saw the candid accounts of teenage sexuality as over-exposure for my young mind and often told me that I wasn’t allowed to buy it. I did, of course, and hid it in my locker at school or buried at the bottom of a school bag. Now that I’m a mother, I straddle the fence on the appropriateness of it for a 13-year-old, however I also think that there’s a huge amount of positivity to it too.

More! was the closest thing that we ever had to a ‘lad’s mag’, meaning that instead of wide-eyed patronisation, or flat-out saccharine coated ignorance, it addressed the issue of teenage girls being sexual creatures. Regardless of how much we’d like to deny it once we become parents, teenage girls are hormone-fuelled randy beasts in the same way that their male counterparts are and More! taught us that that’s not something to be ashamed of. To my mind, it empowered girls to have a say in sex, not just think that they had to lay back and think of England, but be an active and conscious participant. The problem pages taught us about thrush and STDs and contraception and hair in unwanted places and didn’t make us feel stupid for asking.

Magazines like More! are often held up as contributing towards the over-sexualisation of children, but I refute that and would argue that giving girls an honest education (over and above the sterile account they are fed in Sex-Ed classes) about the realities of sex is contributing to giving them confidence and agency over their own bodies. Perhaps giving them the confidence to say NO when it really matters, or to speak up when something that’s supposed to be fun and pleasurable is actually uncomfortable and upsetting. What More! did best was instill a sense of humour and light-heartedness into subjects which can be tricky for young girls to navigate, which was invaluable to us at the time.

So, it’s with sadness that I say a fond farewell to More! magazine. I can only hope that there’s something out there to help girls and young women in the same way that More! helped us.

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All Bets Are Off!

bookielenderNow that we’re living in ‘times of austerity’, a phrase which makes me feel like vomiting violently and is a concept which has now been largely proven to be utter bullshit (although George Osborne is clinging on by his fingernails to it, regardless), I’ve noticed a few things. Firstly, the amount of adverts for ‘payday loans’ on the telly seem to have trebled. That could just be because I’m now a jobless bum and tend to have the TV on during the day, which is when these adverts are usually aired, but there’s a definite increase. (If you’re not sure what payday loans are all about, read this post by Cass).

The other thing I seem to see more and more of is adverts for gambling. Everywhere I turn, there’s online bingo, casinos that you can use on your smartphones, TV channels for roulette…it’s endless. Often, these things are combined with a ‘social’ aspect too, offering people the chance to chat to people while they piss their money up the wall, which makes the whole thing even worse, if you ask me.

Gambling can be dangerous. We all know that. The rush of endorphins when you win, no matter how small an amount can be highly addictive and those with a predilection towards addiction can end up ruined, both financially and personally. Don’t get me wrong, plenty of people are able to have a flutter on the Grand National once a year and never be bothered by gambling again, but that’s not always the case.

But here are the two things that really irk me.

1. Giving the gambling a ‘social’ aspect is preying on people’s loneliness. They’re saying “Got no friends? Come and spunk your money with us and chat to people while you’re at it!” Feelings of loneliness and fragmentation from society are really, really common when people are struggling for money, have been made redundant, have spent a long time on benefits or are generally suffering from depression. Enticing them in to gambling with the promise of a bit of company is so wrong.

2. The fact of the matter is, many people are living hand-to-mouth at the moment. Wages are criminally low in comparison with living costs, benefits are being cut, rents are going up and the cost of a weekly shop has dramatically increased in the past couple of years. The majority of people don’t have the money to gamble, however the lure and prospect of maybe winning a lump sum to help you to drag yourself and your family out of the mire is sometimes enough to make people spend money they don’t have. After all, we have the “you have to be in it to win it” message forced down our throats all the time.

I know there will be people who read this, the eternal unsympathetic, who will say that people should have more self control, don’t blame the companies or the adverts, don’t say addiction is an illness, blah blah…but think about it this way; advertising is psychology – if adverts didn’t work on people, companies wouldn’t spend BILLIONS of galactic credits a year to find creative ways to make you give them your money. These companies MUST take some responsibility for the effect that they have on people…desperate people. They won’t be happy until they’ve wrung us out and extracted the last few pennies from our pockets and I, for one, am sick of it.

A few months ago, I wrote a post about Ladbrokes casino and it occurred to me recently that by offering me free credits and asking me to write about their site, they were dragging me into their world too, asking me to tell my friends about their site, getting average people to part with their cash.

Well, screw you, Ladbrokes and all of the other gambling sites, loan companies with 3999% interest and anything else that’s trying to mug us and Gods bless Martin Lewis and Money Saving Expert and all of the other places who realise that trying to help us to SAVE money is the decent thing to do.

And while we’re at it, George Osborne can kiss my arse too.

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