Family · Finances

School Runs, Soft Play and Surprise Charges: Mums Share Their Car Finance Woes

For many parents, a car is more than a vehicle. It is the lifeline of family life. It ferries children to school, helps with the weekly shop, gets everyone to soft play chaos and brings them home again. When it works, it works. But for some mums across the UK, the car finance deal that promised flexibility and convenience has delivered something entirely different: stress, confusion and surprise charges.

With thousands of families now looking back on car finance agreements signed between 2007 and 2021, the question being asked is not just whether the deal was affordable, but whether it was sold fairly at all. At the heart of this rising concern is the growing awareness of mis-sold car finance and the lived experiences of parents who feel let down.

The Family Finance Juggle

It is no secret that parents have to juggle a lot. Budgeting becomes a balancing act between childcare, groceries, bills and everything in between. So when dealerships began offering car finance deals that sounded too good to pass up, it is no surprise that many families signed on.

Personal Contract Purchase (PCP) agreements were especially popular. These deals offered lower monthly payments and the option to either return the car, trade it in, or pay a final lump sum to own it. But while the structure sounded simple, the fine print often told a more complicated story.

Real Stories, Real Frustrations

Here are some of the common issues that mums have shared about their experiences with car finance:

1. Balloon payment shock
“I thought I was nearly done paying, but then found out I still owed a huge final amount to keep the car. Nobody explained that clearly when I signed.”

2. Hidden mileage restrictions
“I was using the car for school runs and weekend visits to see family. I had no idea going over a mileage cap would lead to such big fees.”

3. No other options
“The salesperson only offered one finance deal. I assumed that meant it was the best one. I later found out I could have had a better rate elsewhere.”

4. Commission? What commission?
“I trusted the dealership, so I did not think to ask about commission. If I had known they were earning more when I paid more, I would have thought twice.”

Signs of a Mis-Sold Deal

These personal experiences are not isolated. They reflect patterns in how finance products were presented and sold, and the lack of transparency that many parents are now questioning.

Key signs of a mis-sold finance deal include:

  • Lack of disclosure about dealer or broker commission
  • Unclear explanation of final balloon payments
  • No opportunity to compare other finance options
  • Glossed-over terms regarding mileage or vehicle condition
  • Feeling pressured into a quick decision without time to reflect

If any of these sound familiar, it may be worth reviewing the original agreement.

Black Horse Finance Claims and Wider Concerns

While several finance providers are being examined for how their products were sold, one name that continues to arise in public conversations is Black Horse. Many consumers have raised Black Horse finance claims, stating they were not properly informed about commission structures or payment terms.

These concerns have helped bring the broader issue of fairness in car finance to light. While not every agreement was problematic, the growing number of complaints shows that mis-selling was not rare.

Why Mums Were Particularly Affected

For mums, especially those managing full households, time and trust are often in short supply. In a busy dealership with children in tow, there may not be time to scrutinise every clause in a finance agreement. When a trusted salesperson presents a deal that sounds reasonable, many parents feel reassured enough to sign without asking too many questions.

Unfortunately, some dealerships took advantage of that trust. When financial products were not explained clearly or were shaped by incentives that worked against the customer, families were the ones who bore the cost.

The Importance of Reviewing Your Agreement

Looking back at your PCP agreement may feel daunting, especially if the car is already long gone. But even if you no longer drive the vehicle, you may still have the right to challenge how the agreement was sold, especially if it was signed between 2007 and 2021.

How to Get Started

  • Find your paperwork
    Look out for the original finance agreement, any dealership correspondence and payment records.
  • Check for red flags
    Was the balloon payment clearly stated? Were you informed about commission? Did you have options?
  • Think about the sales process
    Did you feel pressured? Were you rushed through the paperwork or left with unanswered questions?
  • Use an eligibility checker
    There are free online tools that help assess whether your finance deal may have been mis-sold.
  • Consider a complaint
    If your agreement raises concerns, you can begin by submitting a formal complaint to the lender. If unresolved, the Financial Ombudsman may be able to help.

Why This Matters Now

This is not just about getting some money back. It is about standing up for fairness and financial transparency, especially for families doing their best to stay afloat.

Mums sharing their experiences have helped raise awareness of the issue, encouraging others to take a closer look at their own agreements. In many cases, that second look has made all the difference.

Final Thoughts

Car finance should never feel like a trap. It should support your family’s mobility, not create additional stress or unexpected costs. If your PCP agreement left you with more questions than answers, or more charges than you expected, it might be time to revisit it.

By speaking up, sharing experiences and reviewing old agreements, mums are helping drive real change in the car finance industry. If your agreement was signed between 2007 and 2021, there is every reason to check if you were treated fairly.

Because the school run should not come with hidden fees. And soft play should not be followed by financial headaches. It is time for transparency, fairness and peace of mind for parents and families across the UK.

Business

Finding Payment Solutions for a Non-Traditional Business

Finding Payment Solutions for a Non-Traditional Business

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When you’re running a non traditional business it is often going to require that you do some navigation. It doesn’t matter if you create handmade boards or if you are operating a subscription based business. 

You may even offer services that fall outside the norm. When this happens traditional payment processors may flag your business as high risk. The good news is that if you take a strategic approach it’s very possible for you to find a payment solution that is professional as well as secure. Take a look at these tips. 

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Embracing Sex Positivity: Pleasure Without Shame

Embracing Sex Positivity: Pleasure Without Shame

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Sex is a fundamental part of the human experience, yet for many, it remains shrouded in stigma and secrecy. Sex positivity is about changing that narrative and embracing sexuality as a healthy, natural, and joyful aspect of life, free from shame or judgment. It’s not about being provocative for the sake of it, but about cultivating an open, respectful, and affirming attitude toward our own desires and those of others.

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Finances

I Was Mis-Sold a PCP Deal – What I Wish I’d Known Before Signing

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*This is a fictionalised account based on common experiences of people who were mis-sold PCP car finance. If any of it sounds familiar, you might want to look into your own agreement.

At the time, it felt like a no-brainer. New car, low monthly payments, no awkward haggle with someone in a nylon tie. Just sign on the dotted line, hand over your old banger’s keys, and drive off into the sunset. Job done.

Except… not really.

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Family · Parenting

Building Skills Through Play: How Toys Foster Development in Young Children

Play is often seen as a simple and enjoyable pastime for children, but it holds far greater significance in the realm of child development. Toys, as the primary tools of play, play a crucial role in fostering a wide range of skills in young children. From encouraging creativity to enhancing motor skills, toys have the potential to shape a child’s early learning experiences. Among the array of toys available, items like a folding wooden slide and a wooden dolls house stand out for their versatility and developmental benefits. This article explores how toys contribute to the growth of young children and why certain types of toys are especially effective.

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Family

It’s Not Morbid to Pre-Plan Your Funeral. Here’s Why

There is nothing morbid about planning for end of life arrangements, but there are plenty of people out there who will tell you that there is. It’s not something we all like to openly talk about or think about, but we are all going to end up in the same place, which means that discussing it is not bad luck and it’s not going to bring about the end of all endings. 

When your time earns on this earth, it’s not going to be a problem for you because you won’t be here. But your friends, family and loved ones are the ones that will be gathering together to remember you and to celebrate your life. They will share their memories of you and they’ll say goodbye at your ceremony that honours you.

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Money

How To Turbocharge Your Savings Goals

It’s all good and well being able to meet your everyday expenses, but it’s also important to keep an eye on the future. That’s going to come one way or another, and you’ll find it much easier to weather whatever it may bring if you’ve made the effort to put together a substantial amount of savings.

Of course, for most people, that’s easier said than done. It’s not easy to save when you’re not overflowing with money. But with a little bit of creativity and smart planning, you’ll find that you can turbocharge your savings and give yourself a sizable safety cushion. 

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Set a Target

It’s one thing to say that you’d like to have a lot of savings. After all, who wouldn’t want to have plenty of cash in a savings account? It’s another thing to actually do it. You won’t build your savings if you’re only motivated to save your cash for a month or so. It should be a long-term project. One way to stay motivated and on the right lines is to set a target, for example setting a goal to reach an amount of money within a set period (say: save £5,000 in the twelve months). You’ll find that it’s much easier to save when you know that you’re working towards something specific. 

Automate Savings

The problem most people have with saving is that they only do it when they’re in a strong position to do so. It might be easy to save in January, when there are no fun plans to join in on, but will you be just as eager to put money into your savings account during the summer months?

Consistency is paramount for building savings. It’s much better to put £25 into an account each week, every week, rather than waiting until you feel inspired to move money to your savings account. The best way to do this is to automate the savings process. Simply set it up so that money is moved to your savings each week, and you’ll be building your savings without even noticing it. It’s recommended to use one of the many ‘round-up savings’ apps that are available; they’re an easy and effective way to turbocharge your savings. 

Get a High Yield Savings Account

You’ll make your savings go much further if you put it to work. What do we mean by ‘put it to work’? Keeping it in a high-yield savings account. Not all savings accounts are the same. Some offer low interest rates, which means that you won’t get as much money from the account as you would if it were in a high-yield interest account. There’s a host of options available online, so take a look at what’s available and see which ones suit your needs best. You’ll typically get a better interest rate if you choose an account that doesn’t allow easy access (for instance, having to wait 30 days for a withdrawal).

Uncovering Cash

If you’re finding it difficult to make ends meet, then the idea of saving might not sound like a realistic goal at the moment. But remember that most people usually have at least one additional source of cash that they haven’t yet explored. For instance, could you rent out your driveway or even a room in your home? HP claims and injury compensation claims are also typically overlooked; if you’re eligible, then you may be entitled to hundreds, or even thousands, of pounds. You can put this money directly into a savings account.

Reduce Your Spending

Most people find it difficult to live frugally. But building your savings account doesn’t mean having to live frugally forever. If you close your wallet for a month, for example, then you’ll likely be in a position to add much more money to your savings account. All the cash that you’d ordinarily spend on coffee, lunch, and other treats could, instead, be used to safeguard your future. 

Don’t Touch It

Finally, perhaps the best way to really make your savings account grow: don’t touch it. It can be tempting to withdraw money from your savings to travel or buy something nice, but you’ll find it much more difficult to build a substantial amount of savings if you’re constantly dipping into the piggy bank and making withdrawals. It’s best to simply automate your savings and then forget about them — within a year or two, you’ll find that you’ve got a small fortune, which you can then use to do something that’s a lot more exciting than a week-long holiday. 

Shopping

The Best Ways To Save Money On Your New Phone

Nearly everyone has been hit by the rise in the cost of living, and your household bills may feel a little more stretched than they were a couple of years ago. Families all over the UK are looking at ways to cut their costs, from paying less for family cars to cutting down on grocery spend. Finding ways to save money on your essential expenses can free up money to offset rising bills, and even give you a little extra to put away for a rainy day.

Your phone, while not necessarily considered ‘essential,’ can be another big outgoing, especially if you want one of the latest devices. Years ago, it seemed impossible to save money on a new phone, but is that still the case? Take a look at some of the ways you can save money on a new phone.

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Shop around for deals

After years of rising mobile contract prices, things are finally looking like they’re coming down. From better data deals to lower monthly rates, it is possible to find some savings compared to what you’re paying now. Compare different mobile phone deals to help you find something that’s within your budget – you’ll often find that the best deals aren’t with the networks, but with other providers who can give you a cheaper rate for both the phone and your contract.

Keep your phone and contract separate

While choosing your phone and your contract at the same time is easier, it might make sense to separate your phone and your contract to help you save money. Buying your phone directly from the manufacturer, like Apple, for example, could mean you pay less overall than you would for a 24 or 36-month contract. You can then choose a SIM-only deal, which is likely to offer you better value than a phone and monthly tariff combined. 

With little difference between new releases these days, you can afford to keep your phone for longer and bring your monthly costs right down once the phone is paid off.

Trade in your old phone

Trading in your old phone can help you save money on your new one. While many manufacturers and networks will let you do this directly, it’s worth shopping around to find the deal that gives you the most money for your phone. Sell your mobile and save hundreds on your new one, making it much more affordable. If you have any other old phones hiding in a drawer, take a look at what they’re worth – you could save some extra pennies for Christmas and other treats!

Don’t always go for the latest model

The newest phone models will always be the most expensive, but do you always need to have the latest model to stay up to date? Choosing a different model can mean you still get an upgrade and access to great features, but can save money compared to buying the latest model. 

These days it feels impossible to live without a phone, but that doesn’t mean it has to cost you a small fortune! Free up some room in your monthly budget by looking at ways to keep your mobile phone costs down. 

fashion · Life

Washing Your Shapewear: Essential Tips to Make It Last Longer

Shapewear nowadays can be found in the majority of wardrobes. If you have invested in a high-quality piece you need to properly take care of it to make it last. Why wouldn’t you want to keep a piece that enhances your silhouette and boosts your confidence as much as possible?

Washing your wholesale shapewear incorrectly can lead to many things. Some of them are the shapewear losing its shape, elasticity, and effectiveness. To make your garment last much longer, it’s important to follow the next tips. Especially those on how to wash and dry your shapewear.

The materials

These garments are often made of a blend of materials. They offer compression, stretch, and durability. But they also require special care to maintain their properties.

For example, nylon is known for its elasticity and strength. This one is prone to heat damage but durable too. Spandex, on the other hand, provides stretch and compression. This makes shapewear effective. But it can be sensitive to harsh detergents as well as high temperatures.

Shapewear

Polyester is often combined with other fibers. It adds durability and resilience. If it is not washed properly it can hold on odors. Finally, cotton always adds comfort and breathability. It can shrink if washed in hot water and should be handled gently.

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Business

Spreading Your Positivity Through Your Business

Being mindful of your self-care while running a business doesn’t have to come to the detriment of how you run it. In fact, it can be a crucial aspect of your business’s success. Applying your focus to positivity and care that you manage in your own life, and implementing it into your business can result in a much better experience for your customers, as well. Here are a few ways you can do just that.

Spreading Your Positivity Through Your Business

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